How to Disvirgin a Girl Without Hurting Her. In other words,
this is a guide on "how to deflower a girl."
To begin, disvirgining a lady means engaging in vaginal
penetration through sex with her and thus breaking her hymen.
We prefer to say it this way: "How can I make a woman's
first sexual experience as painless or enjoyable as possible?"
The truth is that women, regardless of age or experience,
may experience pain while having sex (and afterwards); thus, this isn't just
about the initial sexual experience. What you truly desire is to avoid fear and
pain.
Consider a workout session: you can have a hard workout with
odd pains here and there, but you'll feel great afterwards.
Recognize that she may or may not still have a hymen (some
women never do). So you'll have to watch what happens when you're intimate, and
talking to her about it explicitly is a good idea, even if it may be an awkward
conversation.
Consider these ideas to help you have a fearless and
painless sexual experience.
1. Do not attempt penetrative sex until she expresses a genuine desire for it.
First and foremost, she is presumably eager to have
penetrative sex for the first time. That is extremely important. You should
avoid having penetrative sex with her until she expresses a genuine desire for
it. Try "fooling around," bringing her to a high level of sexual
arousal for a few different intimacy sessions without worrying about climax
(you will, she will not) before you actually have intercourse.
2. Go Slow
When you're ready to have intercourse, go slowly, and even
if she's eager, it may be a process that you go through a few times before
you're able to penetrate. Alternatively, once you've penetrated her, she may
want you to stop for a moment or even for that sex session. (This may be
difficult if you are also a virgin.)
3. Use Vaginal Lubrication
You can also use vaginal lubrication, though if it's a young
woman who is eager for sexual experience, this is unlikely to be particularly
useful; she'll be producing plenty of lubrication naturally through her body's
arousal processes. If she's not producing her own lubricant, she's probably not
as "ready" physically as she is emotionally, so proceed cautiously
until she's clearly physically aroused. And you'll know when she's truly
physically ready. She'll sometimes be the one to pull you close to 'get
inside.'
P.S
If you don't remember anything else said so far, remember
this: "Go slowly." It could be the most basic piece of advice we can
give to help you disvirgin without pain. Remember to keep your attention on her
to help her enjoy the session. If she enjoys it, she will return for more.
However, if you try everything and you're both frustrated
because the hymen appears to be too much of a barrier, she may seek medical
attention for an examination and recommendations.
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